Now, if you've read this far, you've gotten the idea that you can give your lady lots of pleasure, and you may be wondering "hey! What about ME?!" Well, what about you? If you have done things properly, you've brought your woman to the verge of orgasm, excited every nerve in her body, and shown her that you LIKE making her sexy and sensual. Decision time. Do you take her over the edge and let her come? Or, do you now ask this passionate woman to climb on and ride you so you both can come? Dither, dither, dither. As a suggestion I would say that at first, you give her a nice orgasm. If she is multi-orgasmic so much the better, keep her going for several. Then, hold her and caress her gently while she relaxes and drifts, secure in your arms, being loved by her loving man. She'll love you for it. Other times however, you may want to pause, with her in a very sexual frame of mind, and let her take her turn at you. This allows her to drive you to the same plateau of sexual cravings as you did to her, and then you both can get crazy with each other. The secret here is DON'T always do the same thing. Keep her guessing and responding to the sensations you are giving her. Likely, you'll have some wonderful sex, and even better, someone who appreciates you for it.
Good luck, and happy licking!
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